On the other hand if I was hoping for a chance of reconciling then no I would stay away from women altogether at least until I know it's done. It depends on the breakup. If it was a bad one, I would hookup in like a week, or as fast as I can to try to forget a guy. If it was a good breakup then Id wait to hookup when I actually seek a realtionship with a guy. Definitely, helped forget him, but not like in a day, it took First hook up after breakup, but it diminished my feelings for him.
It was more of a mentality like "letting him see what he missed on", especially because his best friends were at the same restaurant lol. But in reference to the guy I kissed, there was no second date lol, he wanted one but I didnt.
I think it depends on what you are looking for, I like to take my time to heal my heart, if I'm not ready for another person he will feel it and I will mess up a probably good relationship, you have to be well emotionally to go in another relationship I've never had a boyfriend, but I think it would depend on how long I was with the person and how strong and serious the realtionship was with that person, as well as the reasons for the relationship ending.
Well I really loved the guy I was with and so it took me about 1.
It took about 2. It depends on what the previous relationship was like and how deep the relationship was. If I wasn't that into him,then moving on could be a heck of a lot quicker. I was with the girl for two years. We lived together for one and a half. Things weren't going to great between us and she started making a "new friend". I got very uncomfortable and broke up with her. She said I left her on "suspicions".
I think she turned to him right away for comfort and possibly a hook up, I just wonder if she still thinks of me and if she is hurting.
I haven't heard from her in over a week. But last I know she was still telling me she loved me and wanted me to come home. I honestly have gone through this with her before. She says she understands what hurt me, but things "First hook up after breakup" change. That is why this time I didn't go back.
Find some one who deserves you. but she is playing you because she knows you will always be around,her fall back guy.
I'm not going to say she is not thinking of you because it is difficult to just forget anyone. However,if someone is out on the prowl when they are a part of a relationship,it is because they have already checked out of the relationship mentally,emotionally etc.
I think this has become a game to her,sorry to say. It's great that you are not going back.