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February 8, 7: Technology and new ideas about sex and gender have dramatically changed the laws of love, from who pays for dinner to how long to wait to call after a date. Apps such as Tinder have spoiled us for choice and made it OK to be dating multiple people at once.

Chris Donahue, a year-old writer from Brooklyn, believes men should still foot the bill, at least on the first date.

Manley is on the same page, but his reasoning is more economical: Unfortunately, the rule seems even less clear for those in the LGBT community, says Morningside Heights resident and comedian Stephanie Foltz, who is bisexual.

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Foltz, 29, says it can be tricky, but that gender norms are still at play. One of the first times Foltz took the initiative and asked a guy out, it went really well. The advice used to be to avoid talk of politics and former relationships on early dates, but now many favor putting it all out there from the beginning.

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And once people started broaching politics, she says, other taboos, such as keeping past relationships to yourself, began to get ditched too.

It saves you time figuring out if this is the right person. Forget having a one-night stand and never seeing the person again. With Facebook, Twitter and some minor sleuthing, anyone can be tracked down.

With time, a no-strings hookup could turn into something more. Gone are the days when dates had to be an elaborate night out at a buzzy restaurant or club.

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One dog's amazing journey from the streets to stardom. View author archive Get author RSS feed. Time to throw the dating rule book out the window.

Date one person at a time New rule: There could always be someone better out there Apps such as Tinder have spoiled us for choice and made it OK to be dating multiple people at once. Steer clear of texts New rule: Text away, just keep them in check Forget calling someone.

Guys pick up the check New rule: Men make the first move New rule: Moxie works for ladies, too One of the first times Foltz took the initiative and asked a guy out, it went really well.

Playing the waiting game New rule: No sex until the third date New rule: Keep the talk neutral New rule: Hit it and quit it New rule: Turn on the television Gone are the days when dates had to be an elaborate night out at a buzzy restaurant or club.

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I'm debating whether or not I should stick around for morning sex or leave before I overstay my welcome -- nothing is worse than Don't go to the bar you met at and sit there waiting for him to show up.

Can you count how many mistakes you've made? 1.

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